When you realise...



When you realise...

Has there been this time in life when you feel that things have changed and the world seems to take it well?! I felt like that a few days back... not for the first time but recently...

3 of my best friends are to be wedded and are right now : Engaged! We were the lucky bunch who lived together in hostel. It was a cute family who at the end of the day had all the time to sit up and discuss about each ones H.O.D, teacher, warden, class mates, popular girls in college and blah blah.

There was never a time we actually spoke of those few years after college that would change all our lives. We were the world to each other in that hostel and being away form hostel surely meant coming back for most of us. It hit us that things will change when a few did leave hostel and never came back, but to visit. Personally, it hit me hard when I had to leave and when I for sure knew I would not come back when most of my other friends were gonna be in the same city. I knew I was leaving behind a lot, but I knew what I was leaving it for.

Life goes on. We've gone paths, we've finished a year without being together. We've understood that a few years down the line we will meet with maybe some chunnus and munnus around us. It still hits us hard to think life is changing and we are scared. Right now, the 3 are extremely excited, we are too!! Can't wait to see them tie the t to live happily ever after. We've begun speaking things like "what are we wearing... color code" haha! NEVER before!

We've loved each other a lot, missed each one in our one ways and shared with each other according to our own wavelengths and yet we all stick together cause there is something common among all of us which we have no idea what.

I miss those long planned birthday parties whenever I call each one to wish 'em. It stings a little hard when I browse through those pics taken on beaches, restaurants, hostel rooms, madness during birthdays et all!

I've realised that life does go on, fairytales do come true, friends don't stay with you forever - they BE there for you from somewhere...


...We are not from the world where friends dream about who is gonna be who's brideasmaid or the single women who compete to catch the bouquet when the bride throws it. We are all from the world where the bride wears the saree and counts her toes when she walks... but I still believe that with us the one who is least expected will be the next one!

When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible...


Congrats Aarti, Sus and Ribs! We're really happy for you guys!

Comments

rajesh_online said…
Hi

I come across ur blog.... I found that u have some valuable points on friendship.... Its happening in everyones life. Every person supposed to move from dear ones....

Especially women.....

The good friends can move from our life....
But the sweet memories can stay throughout our life..


Bye..
Rajesh

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